It is difficult to say much without knowing all the details which for obvious reasons cannot be done through the email. However given your age, I would say that it is too early for a committed relationship. Teenage is a time for exploration and experimentation through which one is encountering different parts of one’s nature and discovering oneself. Though it is good to keep before oneself the highest ideal of love, of happiness and harmony respect, of a beautiful togetherness, one needs to understand that the castle of ideal love and flawless happiness cannot be built on the quicksand of passions or waves of emotions. Already the relationship has run into troubled waters and while nothing is impossible, yet it is not advisable to carry the experiment further. Best is to learn from it, grow conscious and come out with mutual understanding. One way is to step out of the committed relationship and not stay together. Remain friends but let it be open ended. Meanwhile find a meaningful goal for yourself and focus yourself and direct all your passions towards this goal. Then see how things develop over the years. In other words give sufficient space and time to each other and see later on if you wish to come back together again.
Affectionately,
Alok Da
