There is an intense exchange of consciousness at every level during sexual activity. If the two persons are both already on the path, then this exchange does not bring as much confusion or exchange of dark material, since both have become one unit. Of course, the harm done due to the fall of consciousness, the loss of seminal energy that builds the physical substance, opening of the doors of adverse vital forces through intense excitement would still be there, but the confusion and degradation of consciousness is avoided. Sex with one steady partner walking the same way is less harmful and dangerous than with a person much inferior in consciousness.
You can inwardly remember Her even while engaged in the act outwardly.
Beloved is someone with whom one shares the inmost secrets. It has little to do with the sexual act.
Affectionately,
Alok Da
