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How do we control overthinking? I mean, we try to reason with ourselves โ€” telling ourselves, “Hey, these things happen; everything is fine. Such situations come and go; that’s just life โ€” it has its ups and downs, and eventually, things will get better.” Yet, despite understanding all of this, our mind simply refuses to accept it and continue to overthink. So, what exactly can we do about that?๐Ÿคฏ๐ŸŒ€๐ŸŒซ๏ธ๐Ÿซ 

It happens because the mind turns in a narrow grove. To widen the grove one needs to broaden one’s interests and activities as well as

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My question is how to deal with countless past mistakes that we can not correct, but that cause frustration and hopelessness in life. Many present conditions are due to the consequences of past deeds. How do we deal with this? There is always the thought that things would be different if I had acted in a different way.๐Ÿซจ๐Ÿ’ฅโณ๐Ÿ™„

‘Mistakes and errors’ are part of the evolutionary process and common to everyone. In the eyes of the Divine they are not mistakes but steps

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I wanted to ask you regarding a specific pattern I find within me. Whenever I get angry, I automatically start crying. There are people who shout when angry, try to prove their point. But me, the moment I start to speak when angry, the crying just starts. I want to know why? What is the reason behind this behaviour?๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿงจ

It is because the vital is bit weak as well as sensitive. There is a need to strengthen it through regular exercises and deep breathing

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I have had Psychosis and Anxiety for the past 16.2 years. I have had painful periods in the Past. But instead of growing in strength (by facing a difficult past), I have started fearing pain in life (because my difficult past was unnerving). Is this fear and nervousness because of my Anxiety and Psychosis?๐ŸŒ€๐Ÿคฏ๐ŸŒช๏ธ๐Ÿซ 

It is because the physical mind and nerves react habitually based on past experience. It has no other way to deal with the present or

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With what attitude should one console himself when he has lent money to another person and has been cheated by that person (as the person did not return that money)? Or in case when a landlord’s property has been usurped by the tenant. How should the landlord ease his distress in such a situation?๐Ÿค‘๐Ÿ’ต๐Ÿ’ธ๐Ÿ’ฐ

First we should learn the lessons. All this happens because we live half consciously without understanding human nature and the rules of the game of

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