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I’m facing a peculiar problem. My father-in-law, who is 87 years old, is fond of watching sex videos. Since he is hard of hearing, he plays those videos loudly. There were a number of times when we took his mobile and formatted it. But every time, he himself installed those sites and watched those videos. 👴🏻📱🦋🍂[…]

We are so disturbed; this is a place where we are staying. Every day there is a quarrel. What to do? What Ma wants us to do, I don’t understand. We have been facing this problem for the last two years after my mother-in-law’s death at the age of 78. I myself am dealing with anxiety problems and I can’t take this anymore. Could you help?

You have to treat it as a medical problem. Social disinhibition is known in old age and certain age-related conditions such as dementia. He needs treatment and psychiatric consultation. You can ask your husband to meet a local psychiatrist and seek his advice.  

Anyways these habits become worse with age and don’t stop by condemnation or blocking the sites, though blocking can be tried with child locks. Possibly he needs something to sleep, but all this cannot be advised over email. Someone needs to see him medically. 

Affectionately 

Alok Da 

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