Interestingly, what I am willing to argue for is desireless action free from egoic vengefulness. I am arguing in favor of a love that doesn’t shrink away from waging Truthful Wars.
You are quite right here. But to answer to someone not on the same page, you may explain it thus that hate, anger, spitefulness, vengeance, vindictiveness, etc. do not help anyone. The strong ones rarely get angry. They respond with force and power if needed, but in perfect quietude. In any case, for a happy, lasting relationship, one should first focus upon the points of meeting, the common grounds, above all the aim. The response will differ, as each one has a different nature. Each one is right from their perspective. But if the goal is the same, the rest will be taken care of in due course of time.
Affectionately,
Alok
