AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER
Ask Alok da

My children are home all day due to vacations, staff is also less and sometimes zero. Then they will make a mess, want to do painting and play with clay and I know I should let them do all this but later it gets so hard on me and when I ask then to help they will never help in clean up so all day I am irritated and tired. Why I have so much dependency on staff?

Dependency on staff is fine but it is better to explain and train the children to help clean up after they have played.

It is also helpful to allocate a fixed space or room for them for playing.

If feasible then they can be made to attend camps where they can learn the things in a methodical manner. 

Affectionately

Alok da.

Share this…

Related Posts

I am angry with my Nana. He wanted to keep a brunch for nonsense reasons and to waste time, and the other day I wanted to keep my birthday party. He first wanted to keep it on Sunday, and Mumma told me, ‘Keep your Birthday on Saturday, as on Sunday, none of your friends will come’. 😠🎂🎈[…]

I understand your frustration but then it is only the strong who can sacrifice something they desire for the sake of their loved one. You can respond to thus upsetting of your plans with anger or learn to adapt according to the ….

Read More >

Those who give themselves entirely/ unconditionally to the Lord do more for the World than the so-called social workers, charities, trusts etc. One man’s perfection and one man who has purified himself, accomplishes more for mankind than any other means. Dada, please explain. 🫴🏼✨

Yes. Absolutely true. By ascending towards higher human or divine possibilities he automatically exerts a pull upon others in the same direction. It is because we are all interconnected and when one man realises a higher possibility, he not only pulls others as a rope pulls everything tied to it but also becomes a luminous example …

Read More >

It is said in the Traditional Spirituality that as one grows spiritually, their body becomes weak. What is the reason behind this? and how to make the body more strong to sustain Spiritual Evolution without breaking down? 💪🏼

There are different traditions and not all say the same thing. Besides this subject has its own complexity.
The basic principle is that there is one prana that circulates in a fivefold movement within the human system, – two currents of pranic energy go upwards to feed the intellectual and spiritual activities, two move downwards to

Read More >