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Alok da, I have a cousin sister who cries all day long. I don’t know why, but today she cried 3 times, yesterday 4. Why is this happening, and how should I tackle it? And after this, everybody will blame me most of the time just because I am elder so what should I do about this? πŸ˜’πŸ˜©πŸ‘§πŸΌπŸ’–πŸŒ»

But it is not your fault if she is crying. Maybe you can try to make her quiet by sharing your toys or simply talking to her or diverting her mind. But in any case, you can’t be held responsible if she is crying unless it was due to some deliberate action that hurt her. Crying is usually because one is not strong. So one must become strong and learn to face the challenges of life without fear.

Affectioanately,

Alok Da

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