Best not to give advice or rather to advise that the person should consult his own deepest heart in a state of inner quietude and
Either ways one has to work through the difficulties of human nature and the challenges posed by the ego and desire self… There is no
Yes it is quite challenging partly due to the generation gap and partly due to a tectonic shift in the social order itself. Trying to
deally, they should strengthen each other’s positive qualities while supplementing each other’s deficiencies. Sharing of common tastes and thoughts, pursuing similar goals is also important.
This is not a defeatist strategy but indeed a wise thing to do. One should not push the doors of destiny too hard to force
The irritation is understandable because one feels compelled. The source of this compulsion is a conditioning that we need to conform to or do what
Romance is more like the courtship dance in animals. It attracts the boy and the girl through mutual charm and attraction. But as love grows
It is best to keep an arms distance from such a person as, besides other things, it means that the person is too self-opinionated and
I think it is important to separate the chaff from the wheat. There is nothing wrong in hanging out or being friends even bestest of
Your understanding and being with him is itself a big support. We may not be always able to change outer circumstances the way we wish
Love is the secret but a love that is wide and strong, love that is of the nature of giving, love that is prepared to
I understand your situation. But you must remove certain misconceptions about marraige. There are no ready made partners. Relationships have to be built and it
It is obvious that one should not engage in a relationship if one is not happy about it or doesn’t feel love. There is nothing
Anger and frustration come from expectations. The remedy therefore lies in expecting nothing from the world, from anybody. Expect only from the Divine knowing that
Their response is their karma. We should not be effected by how they respond. But yes one should see and understand the nature of such
A classic example is Arjuna’s marriage to Subhadra. She was indeed his distant or rather step cousin. There are other examples too.
It is
One should say as simply and directly as one should. There should be nothing to fear if there is love for love understands perfectly. At
It of course helps if both the partners are on the same path and have the same goal. It creates a bonding at the deepest
