Home ยป Relationships ยป I am 45 years old. My father passed away in 2021. When he was bedridden and unable to walk, my sister-in-law treated him very poorly. My brotherโs behavior was equally bad; he would visit like a ‘visiting doctor’ for just a few minutes and stay away so that my father wouldn’t even see him. Even when I told him that Father was calling for him, he refused to come.๐๐ค๏ธโ๏ธ
I completely understand your pain. As this is growing more common and since we cannot change people, the only workable solution is to have proper old age homes or community homes. It somehow also speaks of the poor values inculcated by your brother and sister-in-law. In such instances some other child should have stepped forward and taken care. Anyways what is done is done. One must learn the lessons and move forward.
Affectionately,
Alok Da
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You have expressed your situation very clearly. You should go ahead along the lines you have indicated. You can try explaining them your inner resolve. If they understand you, well and good. In fact if there is true love, they will understand and will be willing to respect the path you have chosen. Leave the rest to the Divine Mother who knows every heart and takes care of everyone in their own way.