This is a common problem these days with most children. We think gifting a mobile to them is an expression of our love, but it almost invariably leads to addiction. Unfortunately, a lot of homework these days is online. If such be the case, it is better to provide a PC (not even a laptop) for this purpose and keep the locks on.ย
Mobile screen time has to be limited. It is best to discuss this with the child since she is grown up enough. Explain to her the reasons and the real dangers of mobile addiction.
Make sure she is busy, with studies, games, extra classes so that not much time is left for other things.ย
It is also important for parents to sit and spend time together discussing different contemporary things, but as friends, so that the child does not feel isolated.
Scolding should be used very sparingly, preferably never with a child in their teens. Instead, discuss a lot and take her out as a friend so that she willingly shares her issues and difficulties with you.ย
Affectionately,ย
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