At the feet of THE MOTHER

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AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER
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We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask. 

This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

 I feel an immense weight on my heart because I realize that I’ve done everything wrong. I entered into a relationship with someone driven by my own desires for materialistic things and personal needs, to fulfill them, without truly considering his genuine feelings. My intentions weren’t pure, and the foundation of this relationship was flawed from the beginning. Now, I can’t help but feel that I’ve used him, and this guilt is consuming me 😥

First thing you need to understand is that nobody is responsible for anyone else. Besides things change, people evolve, relationships shift because nothing is static

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In liking a person romantically, I often tell myself, “if it is meant to be, it will happen”. Or, “don’t force things, let them occur naturally and spontaneously”. But the irony is often that when you tell such things to yourself you get into an inactive state and the other person gets into a relationship during that time. In fact my mother told me, “if your father had not openly disclosed his feelings, we would have never married”.🤨 [Conti]

This is not a defeatist strategy but indeed a wise thing to do. One should not push the doors of destiny too hard to force

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But is it really just the parents or something else stopping you? Look within carefully as there are interesting discoveries to be made. For very often we transfer our own fears to others whereas it is we who need to summon up the courage to live by the truth of our being. “Is it so that if I was really fearless… I would not be bothered by the parents acceptance of something😕?

Yes. Quite so. One then simply follows the truth in one’s heart and accepts full responsibility and consequence of ….

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In The Mother’s Yoga, you said The Mother does the Yoga and not us. She is anyway doing the yoga all the time in us, but we are not aware and are not open.  I take credit for things that are clearly done by Her in work and in me. I tend to remember to call Her during a crisis and forget during success periods. At the same time, I want to be confident about my skills and not to approach the work with fear. How to be confident in my work skills (computer ) while still being humble in front of Mother always and surrender with the opening🤔? Hope I am making sense.

The Mother is doing the Yoga. What is needed from our side is to collaborate. As a part of this collaboration, we put in effort

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In this life, I am trying to move closer to God through spirituality , while many others are not making that effort. Since ultimately every soul will reach the Divine, whether in this lifetime or in future lifetimes, what difference does it really make if I begin the spiritual journey now while others begin later? What is the meaning or significance of starting early, if eventually everyone will reach the same destination?

People are in different stages of their evolution and each one must take their calling. One doesn’t send a one year old to school as

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Sir, Nepal’s situation is not going well after the social media ban. Gen Z has started protesting against the government and corruption, and unfortunately, more than 15 people have been shot and over 300 injured. Still protest is going on. What is your perspective on this situation, and what changes do you think might come after these protests? Sir, how should we see the current situation in Nepal from a spiritual perspective🤨?

All the nations are in a state of turmoil right now and this will continue one way or the other till those governing the nation

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