I made errors in the past (which I think I did because of my ignorance). This led to my character assassination and my outcast from society. People started ill-treating me and humiliating me. All this led also to my psychosis. I had to cut-off almost all connections from people because anyways I was getting negative treatment from them, through all these years. I have been labelled as a womaniser. My crude nature still haunts me. I am attracted to and look at women, but sometimes people notice me looking at women, which leads to further character assassination.🏠⛓️🗣️😪

I offer all this, everything, everything without exception, to the Divine! And I pray for the Divine’s Help and Love and Companionship! I pray that the Divine gives me Bhakti and does everything for me and leads me to my Goal!

Human beings, almost all inflict suffering upon each other unwittingly because of the ego and the desire-self that drives us. Behind it all there is the parent cause ignorance. The only remedy is to take refuge in the Lord that quickly cleanses us of everything and carries us to our true destination very soon. Once someone has turned to the Divine then one is no more this or that person as the world knows and understands but simply a devotee, a child, a portion of the Divine Mother. All the insults thrown at him do not then matter anymore. They too become flowers offered at the Lord’s Feet.

May your beautiful aspiration be fulfilled as it will one day.

Affectionately,

Alok Da

How can i purify my relationship with the Mother? Asking the Divine for too many things seems selfish and at the same time if i make a promise to myself that i will not ask unnecessary things and face difficulties myself seems not the right thing to do. I feel my relationship with Mother is the most valued thing in my life so how do i make it pure.

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Peace is not an absence of disturbance. Even inertia is free from disturbance. Peace is something positive and powerful, a fundamental foundational status of the Divine, seemingly equal and non-reactive like Shiva bearing and upholding the dance of Kali upon his chest or the ocean holding its tremendous energy by its own power of self-limitation. maryada. It is a state of concentrated ingatheredness like the mountains or a vast Silence …

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I offer all this, everything, everything without exception, to the Divine! And I pray for the Divine’s Help and Love and Companionship! I pray that the Divine gives me Bhakti and does everything for me and leads me to my Goal!

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