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AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER
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Alok da, mumma scolds me a lot. Yesterday, she scolded me because I was being a victim, today, when she was sleeping, I bounced a ball without realising, she told ” I never get to sleep” being a victim herself, how can I handle this? 🤾🏼👩🏼😬🌸

We don’t need to handle everything. Most things go away if we don’t give them much importance. Besides, things become better if we try to put them in perspective and understand them. For example, mumma may scold because she might be tired. Or she may scold because she wants to see you strong and independent. Why assume motives? Besides, the baseline is love. Keep to that and try to understand why she is saying the things that she asks you to do. Discuss with her rationally and you will understand better.

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Alok Da

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