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Agreed, Alok da, but not about motive. If it feels negative and energies heavy – pulling you down then ok to say no, right and detach, why tug along.. like how you told me on vital interactions. I feel it’s draining me – even these friendships now – I did ask you earlier too – and I’m not being upfront about it and just carrying along to be nice societally.. but it doesn’t serve me now.. 🕊️🌿 […]

Spiritual Satvikness is rare now.. I’m feeling uncomfy in any other environment.. doubting myself.. if it’s ok to withdraw so much from society.. if it’s disharmony or what.. Even if unintentional, why should I be okay with lower habits and interact? Ok to lose people? Be alone.. I’m not liking it much.. is it me or what is it exactly.. please explain.. 

Also, the counsellor said lsd and smoking are normal.. I am not, as I am too Satvik.. not exposed.. perfectionist.. don’t know what she meant.. just want people with high character.. 

There is nothing wrong with being alone. In fact, it is the sign of strength. To stay alone, one need not judge others. What they do is their business. Our concern should be with the aim in front of us. Let others be the way they wish to be as long as they do not try to harm or impose their way of life upon others. 

I am not sure what is meant by smoking and LSD being normal! Maybe in some countries, all this, as well as alcohol, free sex, gambling, etc are considered normal. It is their business. But why should others follow this norm, which leads us only towards perdition. 

Be yourself. Be full of trust in the Divine and do not bother about what others are or do. 

Affectionately, 

Alok Da

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