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Life Problems And Psychological Difficulties

I made errors in the past (which I think I did because of my ignorance). This led to my character assassination and my outcast from society. People started ill-treating me and humiliating me. All this led also to my psychosis. I had to cut-off almost all connections from people because anyways I was getting negative treatment from them, through all these years. I have been labelled as a womaniser. My crude nature still haunts me. I am attracted to and look at women, but sometimes people notice me looking at women, which leads to further character assassination.๐Ÿ โ›“๏ธ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ๐Ÿ˜ช

May 18, 2026

Human beings, almost all inflict suffering upon each other unwittingly because of the ego and the desire-self that drives us. Behind it all there is

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When someone is being called names for breaking barriers of girl, boy and be clear in her thought and be friends and play sports with them, like what Mother mentioned. How isย one supposed to stand firm even after listening to all kinds of names being called? Honestly I dont knowย  how to help her?๐Ÿคฌ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ๐Ÿ“ข๐Ÿ’ฅ

May 18, 2026

One can either chose to stand apart and alone or to waste time trying to make people understand what you are. Most human beings are

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Sir, false charges and allegations have been put up against my father by some envious and not so good natured colleagues of my father. It’s about the government works that my father had done but some rules and regulations were not properly followed. But the work was proper. My father had no ill intentions and development was his only goal, still then why suffered and has to go through a tough and challenging time ? We have said everything to the Mother.๐Ÿคฅ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ๐ŸŽญ๐Ÿ

May 18, 2026

These difficult moments come to us to test the sincerity of our aspiration and the depth and quality of our faith and surrender. Tell your

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Are friendships necessary – I feel my friends are slightly offensive – put me down – donโ€™t want to acknowledge me for me – I used to be very available before ! Listen to their every problem try solve it. Now I donโ€™t. Itโ€™s negative. Draining.ย ๐Ÿง‘โ€๐Ÿคโ€๐Ÿง‘๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’ฅ๐Ÿ–ค

May 18, 2026

Nothing is necessary in life. It is a question of temperament. Some like to have friends, others prefer to be alone. But whether one has

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With what attitude should one console himself when he has lent money to another person and has been cheated by that person (as the person did not return that money)? Or in case when a landlord’s property has been usurped by the tenant. How should the landlord ease his distress in such a situation?๐Ÿค‘๐Ÿ’ต๐Ÿ’ธ๐Ÿ’ฐ

May 18, 2026

First we should learn the lessons. All this happens because we live half consciously without understanding human nature and the rules of the game of

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Sir, yesterday I was talking with my friend and got to know something. I should be real. Actually, I am showing people what I am not. I should try to ask when needed, even if it is a very basic question. I should not think in a way like what he will think and so on. I should replace this thought with what I really am; they will see that. ๐Ÿง‘โ€๐Ÿคโ€๐Ÿง‘๐Ÿก๐Ÿค๐ŸŽญ[…]

May 18, 2026

Don’t think about people. Human beings live in ignorance and their opinion has no value.

Don’t think about yourself and analyse whether you are this

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I’ve anxiety problem, age 63. I try to sit quietly before Mother’s photo and pray but not always I can overcome it. I try to read Ma Sri Aurobindo’s book but cannot concentrate. Then I try to do household chores and be busy with work.ย Even I feel guilty that being Mother’s child how come I cannot overcome this problem. I want to know when this happens what shall I do at that moment so that I can settle down and pray?ย ๐Ÿ˜ฐ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿฅ€๐Ÿ‚

May 17, 2026

There is no need to feel guilty. All that you need to do is some deep quiet breathing, turning the mind away towards some activity

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I am obese and have related knee pain (osteoarthritis) and the doctor told if i don’t reduce weight i will have to undergo knee replacement within few years. I have other problems as well due to obesity. The doctors have prescribed Rybelsus 3 mg for weight loss. But i have heard about the side effects like hair loss, loose skin, gall bladder removal, and that the medicine has to be taken life long. I am not sure if I should start this medicine or rely only on gym for weight loss. Please guide.๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿ’Š

May 17, 2026

If your weight is part of the heredity factor then there is nothing to worry. Your body mechanisms know how to handle it. If your

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It’s a bit grueling, so the aspiration gets clouded and one is left exhausted. There is much insincerity, so I have to work. I am pushing Her away with my insincerity, so I feel guilty about that. Just hoping that Mother’s presence and guidance is still there somewhere behind the surface, even if I can’t feel it. Am I reading too much into it and should do whichever feels right to the best of my evaluation, do it with the best intentions and offer to Mother?๐Ÿ˜ถโ€๐ŸŒซ๏ธโ˜๏ธ๐ŸŒซ๏ธ๐ŸŒช๏ธ

May 17, 2026

The first thing needed is to be conscious of your aspiration and the true goal. All these ideas are good but they belong to the

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I’m trying to figure out the right thing but I don’t know what to do? But with Mothers grace things will happen one day in the future I’m sure of.. But there must be some sort of lacking in me, Or I’m just not fully and properly relying upon the Mother I think, that I’m still not able to figure out what to do or not having enough courage to do anything. It’s like I’m juggling with my feelings, desires and right decisions, And there are times of complete helplessness like I’m grounded to earth or chained downโ€ฆMy question is how should I practice to rely on the Mother completely and how should I wake up to this sun light?๐Ÿ™โš“๐Ÿ•ฏ๏ธ๐Ÿค

May 17, 2026

What is missing and what you need most is faith. Man cannot take a step forward without faith. This habit of the physical mind to

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I’m in cancer treatment and it looks quite good. But I have to deal with a medical system here in Switzerland that on one hand is very excellent but on the other is often working with “worst case” scenarios causing fear and anxiety in me. (Sometimes I ask myself whether the hostile forces can also use doctors…) Anyway, I often feel the obligation to decide something, whether to follow the doctor’s advice or go my own way. This is very difficult. How can one know whether a decision is right?๐ŸŽ—๏ธ๐Ÿฉบโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน๐Ÿ’Š

May 16, 2026

Human beings live in ignorance, ignorance of the deeper truths and forces that govern our lives, ignorant of the Divine Presence within, ignorant of the

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