One can ask anything and everything from The Mother. But one has to leave it to Her to grant it or not, keeping the trust fully in Her Will. If something is not granted it should not be a cause for doubt. It should be always understood that She loves us always but Her love is not blind like human love but always one with wisdom. Her rejections are also acts of Compassion that knows what is best for us.
Of course we need to do our bit, our part of the effort. And like everything else the relation must evolve from receiving to giving more and more entirely leaving it to Her to give whatever She is moved to give, to be happy with what She gives, and depend entirely on Her for everything.
Affectionately,
Alok Da
