We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.
Alok da, I’m coming to realise how much of the entire political establishment, military, bureaucracy each and everyone’s sons/daughters/nephew/niece is in US. Recently Former US ambassador to India said “I met a Governer of a State (in India)… she said her most important investment is in the US.. her children. If you look at the number of children of senior officials from India in the US, it tells you something about the relationship”🤔 [Conti]
But why should we be worried about what the ruling class does or does not do? Besides, the depressed classes do the same thing when
My partner enjoys eating non-veg, drinking, and partying, whereas I am the complete opposite—I prefer a quiet lifestyle, vegetarian food, and don’t like partying. We even tried to make the relationship work by agreeing that he could go to parties if he wanted, but he shouldn’t expect me to join. Despite our efforts to do our own things and tried to live in harmony, we still end up fighting so much. I’m not sure what to do🤨?
This is unlikely to work. The divergence and dissonance is too fundamental to be overlooked for life. Each doing their own thing is not harmony
Why do some people turn to self-harm or experience suicidal thoughts when they face disappointment or unfulfilled desires in life or relationships😥? What leads to such extreme emotional responses, and how can these feelings be understood and addressed?
It is generally due to a fragile, over sensitive ego-personality and a weak vital full of sentimentality. It could be something one is born with
Can you please advise what is the right space between a couple, I don’t see balance around either they are stuck to each other like a Fevicol (your words 🙂) or they are not bothered what the other person is doing saying we give each other space so what should be the ideal?
Space and freedom is necessary for growth so that each can progress along one’s own unique line. At the same time each supports the other
Sir, please explain Shiva & Shakti tatva in detail whenever you get time. Is shakti the same as Parvati🤔?
Traditionally Ma Parvati is regarded as Shakti because Shiva represents the Force aspect of the One Satchidananda, just as Brahma represents the Sat aspect and
I have another question which is about the Divine will. How do we understand what is the Divine will and whether whatever I am doing is in confirmation with the Divine will🤨? Is inner peace the only indication that my being and whatever I do is confirming with the Divine will?
Normally when we speak of the Divine Will we feel it is about the outer choices and the resulting events and circumstances. Especially we make
Why did Sri Krishna make Devaki Ma and Vasudev and Ma Yashoda forget that he was the Avatar🤔?
Because if they remembered and revealed it to others, it would have jeopardised Sri Krishna’s work, which among other things was to set an example
I know that I’m not a sattwic soul; my nature seems more tamsik. I experience jealousy, I desire to be the best, and I suspect that I have some ego. When I do Puja, it sometimes feels mechanical. How can I overcome these qualities🫤?
Nobody is an ideal sattwic person to begin with. Most human beings are subject to the same human difficulties as you mention. But with a
Sometimes, scrolling through social media and seeing other people’s photos creates the illusion that their lives are perfect—free from struggles or worries. It seems as if they have effortlessly found true love, married their soulmate, and stepped into their “happily ever after,” as though everything has fallen into place flawlessly. But your own life😥,[Conti]…
Have you not heard the story about the advertisement of hell. It is overactive and its sole purpose is to turn humanity away or since
Looking at the current situation in India I believe democracy is not working, its more of a hindrance, in one of you talks you talked about Sanathan Dharma, you talked a new type of politics, can you please elaborate on this? What can be a new way of politics for India🤔?
Democracy is the child of Reason and hence was meant only as a stop gap system. Its strength lies in uplifting the average man to
I have observed more and more children in USA and other countries are Autism and have Down syndrome, in fact a friend told me one in every 40 child in USA is autistic, why is this happening? Is it the pressure of the consciousness? Is it Divine way of balancing the universe as Autistic people are simple as they are not cunning or mean or ambitious like they don’t have the mental traits like a mental human have, please shares your view on this🫤.
It is difficult to say with certainty but a number of factors could be operating.
Vaccination drives since few decades could be responsible for
Sri Aurobindo talks about drawing Divine power to earth to transform human consciousness. But I have read in Mother’s books and also listened in your Youtube video….don’t try to pull the higher or divine to you. Give yourself to the divine more and more. How to understand this🤔?
Sri Aurobindo was speaking of himself drawing the Supramental Power for earth and mankind when he was asked by the disciples as to what he
Energy Vampires 🦇— if after talking to a person you feel completely drained on a regular basis, does this indicate they’re an energy vampire? How to protect ourselves against such people, and how to spot them? The other observation I had is that when I am feeling strong in my vital, I can push back, while when I am feeling vitally low and dull, I become the victim of such people. Hence, the second part of the question is how to develop this vital strength to resist negative influences?
Yes there are sex vampires who draw away energy from others, especially by attracting the victims towards themselves. But this is fortunately not common. There
Would it be the right decision to marry💍 someone who shares your core aspirations?
Indeed that is best though it does not automatically ensure a smooth and harmonious relationship. This is so because even after turning to the same
Why is mumma always tired 😏I did her work once did cooking and all the rest of the things but I could still after that play a football match?
Because mumma is involved in too many different kinds of work, possibly also missing out on her sleep as well in trying to make her
One thing pains me a lot. I see that people who waste money and resources😠, for example re-constructing homes, breaking and taking down good furniture and replacing it with a new one, wasting electricity in the name of home decorations, wasting water in the name of digging borewells instead of sharing, purchasing what is not required just for the sake of satisfaction and show off, spending lavishly in wedding and the list is endless. Most pathetic thing is that these are the people who have a lot of money while various others strive to fulfill daily needs and try hard to save money to satisfy small- small desires. why such combinations like sensible, spiritual and rich are less? Does it has anything to do with one’s thinking pattern? How can one earn money and be good and sensible at the same time?
Yes it should ideally be so, should have been so, but human beings easily respond to the Asuric temptations of a life of pleasure and
Dharm ki paribhaasha kya hai 🙏[What is the definition of Dharm?]
The word Dharm comes from the Sanskrit root dhr which means to hold giving rise to similar words like dharan, dharini, dhoori, dhruv etc. Taking
Dear Alok Da, I irritate you so much by asking the same thing over again and again, but still how come you don’t get angry ? How do you manage it🙂?
Asking questions, even again and again, is your right. So that is no reason for irritation. Similarly answering questions is my…