We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

My parents say that reading Sri Aurobindo and the Mother’s books and listening to the talks, is pointless if I don’t prioritize them. They taunt me, insisting that if I don’t put my family first, everything I’m doing is meaningless. They believe there is a certain age for engaging in such things and feel that, despite all my reading and listening, my nature hasn’t changed, they criticize me by saying this. They question the purpose of it all. Deep inside, I know I am progressing in some way, but as parents, they remind me that I haven’t taken sanyas and can still take care of the family. I do that, but they want to control my life and expect me to follow their way completely. They say is that what they teach you in books and ashram 😥
This is an old outdated way of thinking that the main work of a child is support the family, look after the parents and to

I’m struggling with strong feelings of sexual jealousy because my ex-partner has found someone new. Our relationship is over, but the thought of him being intimate with another woman deeply upsets me. I know I shouldn’t feel this way, but I can’t stop these emotions. Even though it may be stupid to think all these but these thoughts are overwhelming me, and I don’t know how to deal with them. I am very jealous 😫
Jealousy is stupid enough but sexual Jealousy is truly falling into a hole. It means one is comparing one’s capacity to satisfy a partner sexually

My mother has been suffering from neuropathy for some years and it’s becoming worse. Her toes and feet get constricted and numbness, tingling and burning in her hands and weakness in her legs going upwards. Since my father passed away few months ago, she has had many health issues which I have written to you. Her tests are all clear so we don’t understand why this is happening. She is losing her will to live and is in a depressed state. We keep encouraging her to Keep her faith in the Mother and be as normal as possible. She tries but doesn’t feel good. What is the spiritual cause for her physical issues? How can we help her 😥so that she helps herself?
The cause seems to be primarily physical, which could be anything from vitamin deficiency to blood sugar or thyroid issues. It is difficult to say

“The soul in man is greater than his Fate.” written by Sri Aurobindo, I don’t understand this. I’ve read this before but I don’t understand. Could you explain what this means🤔?
It means that the human soul, if it wakes up fully, becomes a master of all the forces of Nature. Fate is the working of

Recently I came across a book 📘named The Direct Path, by Mr Greg Goode. I follow Swami Sarvapriyanadji’s (Swami Vivekanand Ashram, New York) lectures on YouTube on Adwait Vedant. He had mentioned this book. Have you heard of this book? Shall I read it or don’t even download it?
I am not aware of this book. Seems to be inspired by the Vedantic thought. If so be the case then why not read The…

I’ve tried reading books📚 multiple times, but I always give up because I find it boring and lack the patience for it. I’d rather watch a movie 🎞️instead.
Nothing wrong with watching a movie but it is good to do some reading everyday. It is largely a question of interest and individual capacity

1. Some people say, “Why are you afraid of marriage and children? They bring joy to life.” But I find this notion absurd. But still if someone chooses to pursue marriage and parenthood, what should their attitude be? And how should one respond to such people’s remark because they don’t understand😏.
If one wants to do anything worthwhile in life one should never give any importance to the opinions of people except those who have acquired

When The Mother 😇says, you think I am this one body, all are one divine body..or something like that please correct me if I am wrong.. but what does she mean?
The first statement is that we think that She is this body (identifying Her only with the body alone) is erroneous, refers to the fact

Can you please explain, ‘Break up in love💗is wake up in life.’
I can’t say that I completely agree with this sentence which claims to be based on Buddhism. No great teacher, certainly not Buddha would advice

In one way when we are aspiring the divine life manifestation upon earth an another way there are many traditional yogis, seeker who advice mankind to escape this earth. They speak it is an illusionary world which made by God. Another says it is the lila of lord but at the end you must escape this world and merging in the dety. My question is why they are not seeing the whole truth of the Divine, if they have find him? If the supramental consciousness manifested upon earth then why they are repeat this idea and give to mankind? If manifestation of divine life is the work of the divine then why he allow to repeat the game by other saints🤨?
Just as there are beings turned towards the future, who embody the future, so too there are beings whose face is turned towards the past,

Aap ke u tube channel ke video abhi dekhne suru kiye hai, beginner hu..Confused hu , kaha se suru karu, 1 st priority god banani hai..Plz help me ,guide me..Dhammapada 🙏
Go by your seeking and aspiration. It is better to hear and read what you want to know. In general, I would suggest Glimpses of

I have not been in a relationship for over 7 years. My vital often gets attracted to people, but my mind is firmly convinced that a relationship is an unnecessary burden in my life. I shrink away from the thought of being committed to someone, of having to please another person. What an unnecessary waste of time and energy! But unless one is in a relationship, how is one to express one’s sexual urges😫?
Well one doesn’t get into a relationship only to express the sexual urge. All societies have always provided certain safety valves for that. Besides by

In your opinion how and when our great nation will come out of this sheer madness of Kumbh, flaunting Bhakti Yoga, wordplay of Gyan Yoga etc and shift to Shakti and Karma Yoga? Do you see any hope particularly in today’s time when even the responsible political and religious leaders are also fueling this madness instead of giving it the right direction😯.
India has always been a land of diverse approaches. Not all are ready for the most intrinsic sadhana. Therefore Indian culture has provided people to

Dada can you please explain in a few words the Four austerities and Four liberations and how do we practice it our daily life 😇??
Austerity ordinarily means being severe with oneself. It is considered as an equivalent of tapasya whereby one is harsh with oneself to the extent of

I already have a daughter. When I conceived for the second time, some people advised me to take medicine from a different source to have a son, while others suggested doing a computer (sex selection). But I didn’t listen to them because everything I have received from childhood until now, I have received from the Mother. So I said that Mother will give what she wants to. But now that I have a daughter, people are asking why I didn’t do the computer or why I didn’t take medicine. I feel like I was wrong. I am unable to come out of this situation. I am not sure how to stabilize myself and move forward. Please give me some solutions😥.
We should listen to our own self and our own judgment instead of listening to people’s words. The Mother has never differentiated between a boy

I just have a little question about harmony as today is Lakshmi Puja. How does one maintain harmony in the family effectively? When there are fights, I try to stay calm as long as I can and negotiate. However when it becomes unbearable, I give up and get angry. Sometimes when I make mistakes, I quickly apologize and try to correct it in order to maintain peace but it never seems to work well. My family keeps talking about my faults again and again even after I apologize. I am trying from my side but when the other person won’t co-operate, I don’t know what to do. I honestly feel like a failure. I have prayed to the Mother but is there anything else I can do from my side😥?
Harmony is very difficult to achieve in human relationship because each of the ego operating system. Hence each believes himself to be right and his

Reading the Life Divine, I kind of have these visions of galaxies colliding, never heard of musical strings playing at infinite speed which somehow emit fire, feelings of levitation and Mental space widening etc..Did Sri Aurobindo infuse his words to have such an effect or is it my own hallucination cos it stirs something in me? Even reading bande mataram , I can feel like he’s the infusing his writing with some sort of tantrik electric currents which are gonna penetrate the reader’s subconscious depths and bring a resolve in him to fight for freedom. Did Sri Aurobindo had a conscious intention to do this with His writing or is it my own imagination🤨?
It is not about conscious intention alone. Our consciousness flows in our acts and our writings inevitably carry outside to the world, something of the

Is suffering a must before human transformation🤔? It’s in Savitri somewhere in Pg 449 or 450
Once u come to mother…n u surrender to the extent u can… absolute surrender seems only thro grace..why do we still suffer. Then why do