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Life Problems And Psychological Difficulties

Alokda, its been 1.5 year since my dadi whom I was extremely close with passed away. After a very long time she came in my dream – called for me by my name and for some reason out of all in the house only I heard her and attend to her. She has a headache and I look after her and take her to the hospital for treatment- and after treatment she is fine but I dont remember seeing her fine but I get this deep feeling she is and I thank The Mother with all the love for looking after her. Later in morning as I woke up, did my routine but I woke up with a headache. Can you help me understand Alok Da?๐Ÿ•ฏ๏ธ๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ๐Ÿฅ€๐Ÿฆ‹

In all likelihood something of her came in contact with you to rest for a few moments before the dissolution of the last remnants of

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How do we control overthinking? I mean, we try to reason with ourselves โ€” telling ourselves, “Hey, these things happen; everything is fine. Such situations come and go; that’s just life โ€” it has its ups and downs, and eventually, things will get better.” Yet, despite understanding all of this, our mind simply refuses to accept it and continue to overthink. So, what exactly can we do about that?๐Ÿคฏ๐ŸŒ€๐ŸŒซ๏ธ๐Ÿซ 

It happens because the mind turns in a narrow grove. To widen the grove one needs to broaden one’s interests and activities as well as

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My question is how to deal with countless past mistakes that we can not correct, but that cause frustration and hopelessness in life. Many present conditions are due to the consequences of past deeds. How do we deal with this? There is always the thought that things would be different if I had acted in a different way.๐Ÿซจ๐Ÿ’ฅโณ๐Ÿ™„

‘Mistakes and errors’ are part of the evolutionary process and common to everyone. In the eyes of the Divine they are not mistakes but steps

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I wanted to ask you regarding a specific pattern I find within me. Whenever I get angry, I automatically start crying. There are people who shout when angry, try to prove their point. But me, the moment I start to speak when angry, the crying just starts. I want to know why? What is the reason behind this behaviour?๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿงจ

It is because the vital is bit weak as well as sensitive. There is a need to strengthen it through regular exercises and deep breathing

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I have had Psychosis and Anxiety for the past 16.2 years. I have had painful periods in the Past. But instead of growing in strength (by facing a difficult past), I have started fearing pain in life (because my difficult past was unnerving). Is this fear and nervousness because of my Anxiety and Psychosis?๐ŸŒ€๐Ÿคฏ๐ŸŒช๏ธ๐Ÿซ 

It is because the physical mind and nerves react habitually based on past experience. It has no other way to deal with the present or

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I have been not well for most of the year of 2025. I chose not to get the back surgery, but now, I started hearing my own heartbeat in specially my left ear. ENT didn’t find much fluid in my ear so ordered CT Scan. I have 12 mm brain aneurism on the left side and need a brain surgery. Last year I kept joking that I am burning my past karma, but why am I not getting any brake? Now a brain surgery?๐Ÿง ๐Ÿง‘โ€โš•๏ธ๐Ÿฉบ๐Ÿ’Š

One either lives with faith or else enters the medical grove which acts according to its present scientific understanding. To live with faith is to

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I was looking up for the Mother’s knowledge on mistakes and came across this one: “It is quite wrong to go on brooding about the past. The true attitude is to remember that nothing happens but by Godโ€™s will and to submit to that will quietly. If you have made mistakes in the past it is by lack of true surrender and the only way to repair the mistakes is to surrender truly.”ย How can I know if it is a mistake or God’s will? What is the internal compass for reference? How can I know for what I should take ownership vs surrender?๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿ’ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ™ˆ

Mistakes are a language of ignorance that makes the ego-self feel that it is the doer and hence responsible for all that happens. As long

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I made errors in the past (which I think I did because of my ignorance). This led to my character assassination and my outcast from society. People started ill-treating me and humiliating me. All this led also to my psychosis. I had to cut-off almost all connections from people because anyways I was getting negative treatment from them, through all these years. I have been labelled as a womaniser. My crude nature still haunts me. I am attracted to and look at women, but sometimes people notice me looking at women, which leads to further character assassination.๐Ÿ โ›“๏ธ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ๐Ÿ˜ช

Human beings, almost all inflict suffering upon each other unwittingly because of the ego and the desire-self that drives us. Behind it all there is

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When someone is being called names for breaking barriers of girl, boy and be clear in her thought and be friends and play sports with them, like what Mother mentioned. How isย one supposed to stand firm even after listening to all kinds of names being called? Honestly I dont knowย  how to help her?๐Ÿคฌ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ๐Ÿ“ข๐Ÿ’ฅ

One can either chose to stand apart and alone or to waste time trying to make people understand what you are. Most human beings are

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Sir, false charges and allegations have been put up against my father by some envious and not so good natured colleagues of my father. It’s about the government works that my father had done but some rules and regulations were not properly followed. But the work was proper. My father had no ill intentions and development was his only goal, still then why suffered and has to go through a tough and challenging time ? We have said everything to the Mother.๐Ÿคฅ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ๐ŸŽญ๐Ÿ

These difficult moments come to us to test the sincerity of our aspiration and the depth and quality of our faith and surrender. Tell your

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