
Please explain the Psychology behind why we want to be liked by others.
The need for praise comes from a vital deformation of a truth. The vital ego wants to be at the centre of everything. It wants

The need for praise comes from a vital deformation of a truth. The vital ego wants to be at the centre of everything. It wants

One must do both. Why either or? By making personal effort one is better prepared to receive the Grace. Ultimately of course it is always

If we look into the teachings of the wise including our own scriptures, it is clear that it is not parents, teachers, elders etc whom

Rather one should admire your strength and the ability to bounce back. Having a problem in walking is not your fault. And people who may

Do not focus on yourself, your difficulties, your experiences. Turn your mind as completely as possible to the Mother. That is the way forward. Open

No curse can have any effect if you stop believing in its power. Its the belief and fear that gives power to these things. If

Fear and anxiety are of course the worst counselors. One has to make oneself quiet, as quiet as possible before we can truly decide. Mind

It depends upon what we call as a talent. If it means a latent exceptional capacity, a capacity that stands out before others, then it

One must be very patient as these instincts are deeply rooted in our biology and our animal past. They have a tendency to resurface even

When there is darkness all around then there is all the more need for Naam Japa and clinging to the Divine. Inner dryness is generally

Take this ordeal as a preparation. Your aspiration is sincere but nature is not yet ready. Therefore the struggle is …

One need not anticipate difficulties but yes one should be prepared for that. Some of the qualities that help most are wideness and plasticity, an

The mind needs to understand that there is a difference between the intellectual conception of a profound truth and actually realising it. Right now the

You are too young to even think such things. Life has just begun for you. To want to end it is never a good thing.

To feel this way is itself such a rare and beautiful movement. Most human beings simply keep a transactional relation with the Divine. They ask

Are you sure you are not reading an overreaction because my views are different from yours? Don’t you see the paradox that I responded to

Meditation may be difficult for her in this unstable state. She should get busy with the studies and do some deep breathing as well as

Try to imagine that the Divine dwells in all and is behind everything and within everyone. Appearances are a mask and instead of focusing on