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I’ve developed mutual romantic feelings for my cousin. We’re not very closely related, but not too distant either. Some of my muslim friends say there’s nothing wrong with it, also I feel a strong physical attraction toward this person. I’m wondering if this is wrong, especially if we end up getting physically involved😥.

It is quite likely a physical attraction alone. Regardless of being a cousin and setting aside moral notions, physical relation before marriage comes with a

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Why is it that some 50-year-olds, despite having experienced so much in life and claiming to be wise, still fail to grasp certain basic truths? When I ask them not to think negatively, they insist they’re not being negative, just realistic. They say, “This is how humans are. We have endless responsibilities. You younger ones won’t understand, our minds are always preoccupied.” I can’t help but wonder how, after all these years, they still haven’t learned the fundamentals.😡

Yes some people never really grow up and learn. Instead they take it that whatever they have been or learnt is the ultimate truth and

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Dear Alok Da, foremostly, Thank you for the platform. I have a question or may be an observation. Men (or boys) hold a soft corner for women who are Pretty and are (or act) naive and submissive (whereas at times they are manipulative and drawing undue benefits of men in their awe). But there is a visible difference in their behaviour and they act rudely and insensitively with women who are not so pretty, but bold and assertive. They have a presumed idea of her being a spoilt feminism brat and deserves to be dealt with roughly. Also they offer help to pretty women from their side with pleasure but choose to deny help even if the other kind of women ask them for help, taking it to be an unnecessary weight on them. Is it so important to be pretty and act gently (by dropping off boldness) just to win the collaboration of the counterpart especially at workplace😳?

There is possibly a truth in your observation except that it should not be generalised. If we look carefully it is not so much the

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In yesterday’s question on marriage where parents emotionally blackmailing their child to get married you said it is extremely selfish act at its core but they also used to tell us like we are also becoming selfish by not fulfilling their wish. In such a scenario we really don’t have answer answer and such thoughts comes like are we also acting selfishly? Please guide whose demand is valid here😥?

There is a fundamental right given by the Divine to make our free choices and suffer the good or bad consequences. That is the whole

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Dada, can psychic love 💓 be stablish with the one who holds very opposite point of view and believes in different school of thought. The person seems very beautiful at heart and respectful in nature. But when it comes to connect with thoughts and believes they seems to hold reasoning mind quite strongly. What should be my attitude in such senario and how to go about it. Please guide dada 

Dada, can psychic love be stablish with the one who holds very opposite point of view and believes in different school of thought. The person

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I was once remembering the love I had felt for someone which did not lead to marriage because my father was against it and asked God that it was the most beautiful thing in my life why he had taken it away from me. Instantly i sensed a white light. But what was God trying to communicate to me at that time? Did that mean that he had other plans for me or something else😐?

White light means Divine Wisdom and Compassion indicating that whatever happened was best for you even though you could not understand it at that moment.

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