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Life Problems And Psychological Difficulties

Sir, you said in the initial part of video something like there are people who can’t keep up with pace of life and all throughout this video, I saw you blaming the depressed 😔person himself for his condition. Is it not the society’s fault for the fast pace? Do we need this pace? Do we not need to slow down? And also isn’t depression a crisis for evolution? I suffer from depression since a long time. I am always fatigued. But I am a fighter. But the pace is something I can’t handle. Also judgement of society? Why must society judge one on their standards? Isn’t society toxic in a lot of ways? I see depression as an evolutionary crisis. Could you share your thoughts on this?

I am not sure which video gave you this impression that one gets depressed because one is unable to keep pace with the Society! On

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Praying, chanting to the Divine.. Still very dark for some. Hell to some of us is: Intense Pain – emotional, mental that becomes Physical, with no solution in sight – Just faith in the Divine that makes the person not wanting to kill oneself! With absolutely no support physical or emotional… Totally one their own. Is this a test? This is karmic we believe. But this absolute pain makes one fall and get into cravings for holding onto little faith. So one guru says, when someone is hungry and poor  give him food not philosophy!  Isn’t it the condition with people who are going through hell😈?

As to personal hell, of course the person does not need lecture. I am myself a psychiatrist and do not speak scriptures to those who

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When we feel jealousy, angry about anyone, by remembering the words of mother “not to entertain these activities within urself” succeed in ceasing the action or manifestation & sexual impulse also in the same process. Though it lasts 1 min or half a min in our thoughts. Just diverting our minds, we succeeded in stopping these actions 🤔 (A stable/ cool form is established within our body system) [conti]

The question is deep and very much valid. Indeed the body remembers not only the memories it has had during the lifetime in a particular

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There are some desires in us that are too strong. Even if we try and surrender those, something in us still clings to those desires and makes us anxious about them. Some part in us also has the knowledge that even if this desire is fulfilled, it will be transient and has no future, but the part that clings to the desire feels something like “Even if it gives me happiness for 1 second, I want it”😬[conti]

It is true for all of us. Almost all go through this process and the Divine Mother carries each through this treacherous terrain and sometimes

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I have a question. I want to learn English. I can’t read or understand it and I am thinking of doing LLB. So, is it right to do LLB? And if I want to learn English, how can I learn it so that I can speak and understand it? And there is a lot of fighting at my home, so I will try to spend some time away from everyone so that there will be less fighting, and I can become something in life. It is also my father’s dream that I study and become something 😥[Conti]

f you feel that you want to be a lawyer you should do it. As to learning English there are a number of Spoken English

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I have a question. Suppose due to some circumstances I have to do some unproductive work and too busy in my schedule, of course, through my own karma I can surrender, but sometimes I realize that due to some reason I’m compelled to do work which are not necessary . But I want to read more and more Lord’s book but not …….Every time I’m not able to incline with Lord ……but my soul wants something beyond…..what to be done …would u answer please🙏?

Prayer and calling Her Name is of course the main stay for changing the curve of karma along which one is walking. Especially when the

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Why is it that when someone chooses not to follow conventional paths—like pursuing a Masters or PhD, having children or a traditional job—and instead lives differently without glorifying their struggle and challenges, people/society often dismiss it as taking the ‘easy path,’ while glorifying conventional struggles as more valuable🤨?

Yes because most people believe that the path of life they have chosen is the best or the only true path. Besides every life has

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 I feel an immense weight on my heart because I realize that I’ve done everything wrong. I entered into a relationship with someone driven by my own desires for materialistic things and personal needs, to fulfill them, without truly considering his genuine feelings. My intentions weren’t pure, and the foundation of this relationship was flawed from the beginning. Now, I can’t help but feel that I’ve used him, and this guilt is consuming me 😥

First thing you need to understand is that nobody is responsible for anyone else. Besides things change, people evolve, relationships shift because nothing is static

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But is it really just the parents or something else stopping you? Look within carefully as there are interesting discoveries to be made. For very often we transfer our own fears to others whereas it is we who need to summon up the courage to live by the truth of our being. “Is it so that if I was really fearless… I would not be bothered by the parents acceptance of something😕?

Yes. Quite so. One then simply follows the truth in one’s heart and accepts full responsibility and consequence of ….

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