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Life Problems And Psychological Difficulties

Da I ​​am not able to understand anything, I am feeling blank, I want to say a lot. I want to mail you in detail, I want to say everything but I am not able to write. I feel like coming face to face and saying it but right now that is not possible. I am feeling a lot of pain, I feel like leaving everything and going away, I am tired. I don’t want to understand anyone anymore, I am not able to do it anymore. What is happening to me?😴💤🥱😵‍💫

May 16, 2026

I can understand your state and what you must be going through. It is unfortunately the fate of most human love because it is based

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My sister’s friend who is just 35 years old passed away a week back in cardiac arrest . Whole family is in shock. She was healthy with no record of physical issues. She is a very soft, helpful and good soul. She has an 8 year old son whom she was very attached to and the child was also very attached to her. She was the only one who wholly was taking care of that child without husband involvement. Why did her soul choose to leave so early even though she had the desire to take of her son and attachment to live ? How is this justifiable to that small kid from a spiritual point of view?🕊️🤍🥀💔

May 16, 2026

Justifiable to whom? The soul of the child might want to go through certain experiences. The soul of the mother, as is most likely in

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 I have noticed that when I chant ‘Mother Mother Mother Mother’, a form of anxiety arises in me, like a great tension and a more serious Divine Force. But when I chant ‘Maa Maa Maa Maa Maa’, I feel calmer and more centred. Is this something similar to what is described in the Bhagavad Gita in chapter 11, when Arjuna sees Sri Krishna in the Supreme Universal Form, vs Sri Krishna normally seen by Arjuna in a friendly, loving manner.🫨🌀😰🌹

May 16, 2026

Each one has a personal way of connecting. But Maa is certainly better, easier, even phonetically simpler. Mother reminds of someone or something superior with

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How can one break free from the cycle of people-pleasing, emotional blackmail, and the paralyzing fear of hurting others, especially when burdened by family trauma, financial instability, and the loss of a father, while learning to set boundaries and find inner peace without succumbing to depression or isolation? 🚫🙅🛑🏠💔🙏🏻✨

May 16, 2026

I understand that all this has led to a certain degree of suppression and hesitation in your life. What you need is a mentor whom

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I have mental disease, I take one tablet every night. I want to do Mother’s Yoga. Is Buddhi Yoga and mental control possible for patient because my mind cannot cease to think and I fear a lot in every moment. Mother says fear is hostile force. I am egoistic person and I have vanity, and also get angry sometimes and I don’t talk much, I am very vulnerable and emotional. I know Mother and Sri Aurobindo helps everyone. Is it possible to do Mother’s Yoga for patient like me?🌀🧠🌫️🕸️

May 15, 2026

Everything is possible once the aspiration has awakened. Even if outer circumstances are averse and the inner nature not ready, yet we must follow the

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 I had posted on trauma of abuse in my teenage days…and now everything is getting better especially psychologically ..I am there fr my children, myself still recovering..may be it’s a journey….Mother knows …I have handed over it to the Lord now too..the burden …Through my therapist I got to know that a tunnel is open of past life ..from where the entities have been coming etc..🧸 🩹 ✨

May 15, 2026

Police complaint hardly helps in family matters. You have to ensure that the child is never alone in his company and preferably is kept away

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For quite a few years I have been under significant financial pressure due to debt, and despite sincere effort and responsibility on my part, I feel stuck. This on going constraint has begun to affect my inner state and my approach to the Divine, and I wish to understand the right attitude a sadhak of Integral Yoga should hold in such circumstances.💸📉💨🙅‍♀️

May 15, 2026

There is a beautiful passage in Savitri which is quite illustrative of the attitude needed as we pass through the various challenges of life.

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I am also The Mother’s child. When I was in my student life I came into the contact with The Mother & Sri Aurobindo due to my employer CA. Later I started going to the center and read the books of The Mother & Sri Aurobindo. At present I am CA. In my early career I started teaching as profession but due to voice box issue I need to left. So I started with share market work but from last few months I am making losses. Recently I read The Mother’s literature where she say not to work in the field of Share Market. Now I don’t have enough client to even maintain my office expense. How should I earn to manage my livelihood? 📈💰💸

May 15, 2026

I am not sure why you did not continue keeping CA as your main profession and instead went into the Share Market as the mainstay

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I have been scolded and banned from using headphones in wards , which I used to listen to your videos or Mother’s music in free time. I keep feeling that I should just leave this pg seat and join Sri Aurobindo Ashram I know life won’t be easy n chill anywhere if I am not peaceful within but at least in Ashram I would be able to remember Maa all the time and wouldn’t have so many restrictions. Any advice on this how to deal with such situation??🤯🌀🌫️

May 15, 2026

Do not leave the work you are doing. It is She who has given this work to you to prepare you for the future. Instead

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I have a very problem since childhood and still persist. I start something in a very enthusiastic after resolution but drops it in few weeks or months either because of priorities or lack of interest or insincerity. Its both in case of ordinary & spiritual life. For example I plan to paint or read spiritual books or do some certification etc. How to fix this problem?🌅🆕🌱📅

May 14, 2026

This is because the vital is unsteady. Practice equanimity, apply reason to control the vital from jumping from one thing to another, above all, call

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