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Life Problems And Psychological Difficulties

It seems like a lot of The Mother’s comments on human love, especially in a romantic capacity, lead back to the fact that it is all ego based and desire based – and therefore a desire to “overcome” vs pursue. Is it wrong to want a loving relationship/life partner and to put effort into finding this? I have always wanted to meet someone growing up but haven’t really given myself permission to do so due to some big insecurities and mental blocks that make me feel unworthy of the type of person or relationship I’d want. I find myself feeling bitter and lonely more often – especially seeing those around me easily finding suitable partners and especially as I approach my late twenties. Even though I know a relationship is not the magic solution for happiness, I do think it’s an important part of anyone’s life.

The Mother’s comments on human love have to be seen in context. Some are letters written to specific sadhaks and hence it may not be

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You talk so many times of detachment in general life. Either it’s relationship which hurts anyone or the homely or office life from which one is not satisfied. But how should I detach from the outer things happening in my life whether it’s bad or good. What is the process of that? Can you please elaborate the method. There are times in my life when I have a problem and I am unable to find any solution to that, will detachment to that problem will help me? Will it give me less pain ? Or will it help me to find a way?

By attaching oneself to the Divine one gets more and more detached with the surface play of the world which is essentially a play of

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Whenever I sit quiet, praying to Mother, everything seems to be settled. But when I go in the real world, I feel that people take me granted as my polite humble approach towards all. Why people show of their power and dominance always? Even the absolute power is the divine only. I have mild autism spectrum disorder, I always find out difficulties with communication and over all social behavioural things with people and especially when people are dominating.

People are what they are because of various reasons. We cannot change them. What is important is how should we deal with them. With regard

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How can i be happy?

Our natural state should be that of happiness.

But as we grow the spontaneous happiness of a child gets covered due to the social

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