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I am not sure what you mean by seeking spirituality. Spiritual life is not about some practices of meditation etc or about intellectual philosophy. It

What is moving on and forgive exactly mean?❤️‍🩹🍃🤝🌊

May 19, 2026

Moving on means to keep one’s face turned towards the future. It means to have a clear aim, a high goal with which one is

What Sri Ma said about skin diseases?🔴🧴💥🌵

May 19, 2026

She has said that, from the spiritual point of view, skin diseases are most difficult to cure. They may be due to hereditary influences or

Since childhood, I have never really figured out my Swadharma. I picked up a career just like a rat race. I’m 32, but I don’t have a settled path. I keep fluctuating and never truly focused on learning or education. It breaks my heart that I didn’t learn in school or college in the true way. I studied just to clear exams, not to actually acquire knowledge 🧭🛣️🚶‍♂️🎯[…]

May 19, 2026

It is so with everybody. Even those who come consciously for a specific work take time before the future horizons become fully clear. What we

Alokda, its been 1.5 year since my dadi whom I was extremely close with passed away. After a very long time she came in my dream – called for me by my name and for some reason out of all in the house only I heard her and attend to her. She has a headache and I look after her and take her to the hospital for treatment- and after treatment she is fine but I dont remember seeing her fine but I get this deep feeling she is and I thank The Mother with all the love for looking after her. Later in morning as I woke up, did my routine but I woke up with a headache. Can you help me understand Alok Da?🕯️🕊️🥀🦋

May 19, 2026

In all likelihood something of her came in contact with you to rest for a few moments before the dissolution of the last remnants of

In each one’s life there comes a moment when he has to choose between path and muddle you cannot put one foot here and one there, if you try to you will be torn into pieces..A heart that does not choose is a heart that will die. Sir, Can you please speak more about this?🔀🗺️🧭🛣️

May 19, 2026

It means that, on the one side, there is the ordinary life with its ordinary aims, a life centered around our petty desires, gains and

Alok, today the biggest menace is of drugs. Most of the young generation including children of class 7/8 are addicted. Could you please guide on this issue otherwise our country will be in great mess…🚫💉🙅‍♂️💊

May 19, 2026

I think I will have a talk on this subject, though I faintly remember one that was given in Auroville on this important subject. Meanwhile,

How do we control overthinking? I mean, we try to reason with ourselves — telling ourselves, “Hey, these things happen; everything is fine. Such situations come and go; that’s just life — it has its ups and downs, and eventually, things will get better.” Yet, despite understanding all of this, our mind simply refuses to accept it and continue to overthink. So, what exactly can we do about that?🤯🌀🌫️🫠

May 19, 2026

It happens because the mind turns in a narrow grove. To widen the grove one needs to broaden one’s interests and activities as well as

My question is how to deal with countless past mistakes that we can not correct, but that cause frustration and hopelessness in life. Many present conditions are due to the consequences of past deeds. How do we deal with this? There is always the thought that things would be different if I had acted in a different way.🫨💥⏳🙄

May 19, 2026

‘Mistakes and errors’ are part of the evolutionary process and common to everyone. In the eyes of the Divine they are not mistakes but steps

I wanted to ask you regarding a specific pattern I find within me. Whenever I get angry, I automatically start crying. There are people who shout when angry, try to prove their point. But me, the moment I start to speak when angry, the crying just starts. I want to know why? What is the reason behind this behaviour?😤😡😭🔥🧨

May 19, 2026

It is because the vital is bit weak as well as sensitive. There is a need to strengthen it through regular exercises and deep breathing

I have had Psychosis and Anxiety for the past 16.2 years. I have had painful periods in the Past. But instead of growing in strength (by facing a difficult past), I have started fearing pain in life (because my difficult past was unnerving). Is this fear and nervousness because of my Anxiety and Psychosis?🌀🤯🌪️🫠

May 19, 2026

It is because the physical mind and nerves react habitually based on past experience. It has no other way to deal with the present or

My son age 16 years died on 5/11/2025 he was on ventilator. But his death is shock to us and suddenly it all happen in span of 30 days time. He is not coming in dreams nor we can feel his presence. Rebirth has taken place. We don’t know🍂🥀💔

May 18, 2026

I can fully understand the pain that you and your wife as well as the other members of the family must be going through. From

I have been not well for most of the year of 2025. I chose not to get the back surgery, but now, I started hearing my own heartbeat in specially my left ear. ENT didn’t find much fluid in my ear so ordered CT Scan. I have 12 mm brain aneurism on the left side and need a brain surgery. Last year I kept joking that I am burning my past karma, but why am I not getting any brake? Now a brain surgery?🧠🧑‍⚕️🩺💊

May 18, 2026

One either lives with faith or else enters the medical grove which acts according to its present scientific understanding. To live with faith is to

I was looking up for the Mother’s knowledge on mistakes and came across this one: “It is quite wrong to go on brooding about the past. The true attitude is to remember that nothing happens but by God’s will and to submit to that will quietly. If you have made mistakes in the past it is by lack of true surrender and the only way to repair the mistakes is to surrender truly.” How can I know if it is a mistake or God’s will? What is the internal compass for reference? How can I know for what I should take ownership vs surrender?🤦💥😬🙈

May 18, 2026

Mistakes are a language of ignorance that makes the ego-self feel that it is the doer and hence responsible for all that happens. As long

I made errors in the past (which I think I did because of my ignorance). This led to my character assassination and my outcast from society. People started ill-treating me and humiliating me. All this led also to my psychosis. I had to cut-off almost all connections from people because anyways I was getting negative treatment from them, through all these years. I have been labelled as a womaniser. My crude nature still haunts me. I am attracted to and look at women, but sometimes people notice me looking at women, which leads to further character assassination.🏠⛓️🗣️😪

May 18, 2026

Human beings, almost all inflict suffering upon each other unwittingly because of the ego and the desire-self that drives us. Behind it all there is

But certain experiences make u bitter right.. even if u want to spread joy and happiness.. people question your giving nature and can’t be happy that ur happy always.. take for granted.. use.. 🍋🤢🪵💔

May 18, 2026

How does it matter what people think about you. A flower blooms not because people may appreciate, – they may or may not. It blooms

When someone is being called names for breaking barriers of girl, boy and be clear in her thought and be friends and play sports with them, like what Mother mentioned. How is one supposed to stand firm even after listening to all kinds of names being called? Honestly I dont know how to help her?🤬🗣️📢💥

May 18, 2026

One can either chose to stand apart and alone or to waste time trying to make people understand what you are. Most human beings are

Sir, false charges and allegations have been put up against my father by some envious and not so good natured colleagues of my father. It’s about the government works that my father had done but some rules and regulations were not properly followed. But the work was proper. My father had no ill intentions and development was his only goal, still then why suffered and has to go through a tough and challenging time ? We have said everything to the Mother.🤥🗣️🎭🐍

May 18, 2026

These difficult moments come to us to test the sincerity of our aspiration and the depth and quality of our faith and surrender. Tell your

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