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Relationships

When your parents want you to get married but you don’t, you are not interested or not yet ready for marriage, how do you make them understand🙄? They say, “You are our responsibility.” Even though you live far from them, they worry and say, “Don’t deprive us the chance to perform your kanyadaan.” They are concerned about you being alone, saying, “Life is long, and it’s hard to live alone, especially in these times when bad things are happening to women.”

October 2, 2024

Well the best way is to address their fears. As parents their concern is legitimate just as your right of choice to marry or not

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Some friends always expect you to be available for them, but when you need them, they are nowhere to be found. They dump their problems on you without even asking about yours. Conversations with them revolve entirely around their lives, and if you try to share something, they cut you off and steer the talk back to themselves. They take you for granted, disappearing for long periods only to show up out of the blue, expecting you to act as if everything is fine. One day, they’re full of affection, and the next, they act like you don’t exist. How to deal with such people🙄? Are they even worth calling friends?

September 21, 2024

True friends are indeed very rare like the pearl inside a shell. The sign of a true friend is that he or she loves you

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Why is love blind?

August 10, 2024

Actually love is not blind, rather, for a moment at least it removes blindness and one see the Divine in form that has awakened love

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It seems like a lot of The Mother’s comments on human love, especially in a romantic capacity, lead back to the fact that it is all ego based and desire based – and therefore a desire to “overcome” vs pursue. Is it wrong to want a loving relationship/life partner and to put effort into finding this? I have always wanted to meet someone growing up but haven’t really given myself permission to do so due to some big insecurities and mental blocks that make me feel unworthy of the type of person or relationship I’d want. I find myself feeling bitter and lonely more often – especially seeing those around me easily finding suitable partners and especially as I approach my late twenties. Even though I know a relationship is not the magic solution for happiness, I do think it’s an important part of anyone’s life.

July 27, 2024

The Mother’s comments on human love have to be seen in context. Some are letters written to specific sadhaks and hence it may not be

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